(Kimberly (she/her) took the express train down the fountain pen/stationery rabbit hole and doesn't want to be rescued. She can be found on Instagram @allthehobbies because there really are many, many hobbies!.)
Growing up, I always looked through mail order catalogs and wished for the day I could get stationery with my name on it. I don’t know what I was going to do with it but it always seemed like a neat idea. When we first moved to our house, one of the first things I did was place an order for address labels since I was still paying a lot of the bills by mail (gasp!). And prior to that, the last time I had any stationery personalized was our wedding invitations. Fast forward to now and I get personalized items in the mail whether I want them or not - usually in the form of address labels or notepads, from organizations wanting donations. Pro tip: if you want address labels, just make a donation to a non-profit and eventually you’ll get more address labels than you could possibly ever use, lol.
Some time ago, a friend mailed me a note on their personalized stationery - a card complete with engraving and monogram, and in a lined & addressed envelope too. I absolutely loved getting something so fancy - it made me feel extra special. I was immediately struck with the need to have something like that for those special occasions when a generic-card-from-a-box isn’t enough. So I gave Jeremy Saumere of Flax Pen-to-Paper a heads-up that my next visit would entail picking out personalized stationery.
Consultation appointments are recommended (but not required) so the team can give you their full attention. Expect to spend at least a couple hours for your first visit. Three hours isn’t unheard of if you want to look through all the binders and don’t quite know what you’re looking for (like me). You can also spread it out over multiple appointments if you aren’t able to decide after the first session (all appointments/consultations are free). The initial visit needs to be in-person so you can not only see the colors but also feel the texture of the papers and print process. After the first meeting, the team can do virtual consultations, if needed. Jeremy did a follow-up virtual meeting with me because some of the options I chose had been discontinued.
Custom stationery is a personal thing and should reflect your personality, likes/dislikes, and use cases. Everyone will be different so looking for “popular” or “trendy” items kind of defeats the idea of personalized stationery. It was very helpful for me to have Jeremy to bounce ideas off of because it can be hard to pick between the various options, especially when they start looking more and more similar. He wasn’t helping me just because we’re friends - this is part of the free consultation service & experience that they provide.